Relationship Q&A | Dry Spells + Couples Therapy + Jealousy

게시일 2021. 02. 23.
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Thanks to BetterHelp for sponsoring this video! Get started on your therapy journey here: It's our annual Couples Q&A to round off the month of love and it's a JUICY one!
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  • Jenn Im

    Jenn Im

    개월 전

    Happy post Valentine's Day! 💘 Ben & I are back for our annual relationship Q&A! We cover a lot of juicy q's in this one. Also we'd love to know what new personality trait you discovered last year.

    • Lim Doyeon96

      Lim Doyeon96

      16 일 전

      @Sharbani Bhattarai waking up at 7:01 am is a great thing to boost my mood.

    • Sharbani Bhattarai

      Sharbani Bhattarai

      16 일 전

      Omg my crazy ocd ass if driving nuts seeing her hair on her cheeks.Girl you stunning and that hair its everythingggg but the hair on your cheek omgggg i might die

    • Диляна Димокова

      Диляна Димокова

      개월 전

      @Jenn Im Thank you! 🤗 And thank you for all the things you do! You are an amazing person! Thank you for sharing not only the good parts, but also the difficult ones and despite that staying positive! 💓

  • Marie Auger

    Marie Auger

    4 시간 전

    I literally sent this vid to my bf saying "reminds me of us, please watch it" ahahaha

  • J J

    J J

    2 일 전

    LOL always reminded of how similar Jenn’s and my personalities are

  • Olivia p

    Olivia p

    2 일 전

    Why are you dating with old guy?

  • Julie Vantilt

    Julie Vantilt

    5 일 전

    When Ben explained your patience is like a battery 🔋 ... HAHA that’s me!

  • Gao


    5 일 전

    Love how Ben pronounced “lol” exactly the way it’s spelled instead of el-oh-el 🤣.

  • miywws


    6 일 전

    This one made me feel better. I thought I was old finding my partner at 23 esp when I had been told women expire at 22 and stuff. We went through 4 month long distance and it wasnt too hard but it's been harder to come to the family that has a lot of violence, misogyny etc. In it. Communication has been a huge part of our relationship now as the environment has been so toxic.

  • Lona Nyusou

    Lona Nyusou

    6 일 전

    I can listen to them all day 😩❤️

  • ticklethehedgehog


    7 일 전

    Love that both of you are so eloquent and charismatic :)

  • Brad Kelly

    Brad Kelly

    8 일 전

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  • 59mmich


    8 일 전

    Ben is so kind. What a warm soul. Jenn has such a pure heart! And her skin is FLAWLESS ✨

  • Ngawang Chodar

    Ngawang Chodar

    9 일 전


  • Sofia Ysabel

    Sofia Ysabel

    9 일 전

    sooo adorbs 🥺❤️

  • Francisca Juan

    Francisca Juan

    9 일 전

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  • Brad Kelly

    Brad Kelly

    9 일 전

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  • kriza clare

    kriza clare

    9 일 전

    I’m so in love with your guys’ love 🥰

  • none


    9 일 전

    If I see another Asian woman with white guy video I’m going to puke. 😂

  • Yenitza García

    Yenitza García

    10 일 전

    So... we live in a 1br apt with 5 pets and intimacy can get a little annoying when any of our pets gets needy. One of our cats will start meowing at the door when he hears us moving around and so sometimes we'll just throw something at the door that will make him go 'O h sHiT!" and he'll leave us alone for a while. 😂

  • Zinniye


    10 일 전

    I'm like Jenn lol. No poker face and no patience for long convos....

  • Julianna beltz

    Julianna beltz

    10 일 전

    Love how honest you both are also congratulations on the baby! 💖

  • Ivon Sandoval

    Ivon Sandoval

    11 일 전

    2022 video: there will be three!!! So excited!!

  • Jane Huang

    Jane Huang

    11 일 전

    Who's here after watching the pregnancy announcement? ALSO their outfits have a subtle yin yang vibe, love it 💕

  • sarah199677


    12 일 전

    thank you for this video!!! long term relationships and living together can be hard, and the fact so many people don't talk about the rough patches and dry spells can make it hard and make it feel as though you're failing. Appreciate the honesty and the lovely video- you're a fab couple

  • Azuma


    13 일 전

    this was seriuosly so JUICCYY

  • ybbamochi


    18 일 전

    I can definitely relate when you said that Ben is the more sociable/chatty person who can get along with anyone and talk for a long time, while Jenn is more straightforward and likes to keep things simple with conversation. Yup sounds like me and my bf 😂 That’s his gift though and it makes him happy, so I can’t help but be supportive.

  • Avery Kinnaird

    Avery Kinnaird

    20 일 전

    Girllll I have no poker face and patience too!! I feel youuuuu

  • mysticmusical


    20 일 전

    Ahhh it's clothesencounters!! Took me a while to realized but I recognized your voice immediately. So glad you popped up in recommended. I took so many styling tips from you growing up. It's nice to see you're doing well 💕💕

  • Jade Fonteneau

    Jade Fonteneau

    21 일 전

    Loved this Q&A. I’m quite new to your channel so it was great to find out more about you, your personality, your couple.. It looks like you’re in a very strong and healthy relationship. 🙌🏼 It’s really great to see that you’re both very open and willing to put in the work needed to make your relationship last and blossom.

  • ShutUpStacy


    23 일 전

    loved watching this video. thanks for posting and being so real. can see that you guys have put lots of work into your relationship. a true inspiration :)

  • Delia X

    Delia X

    23 일 전

    I was smiling throughout the whole vid 😊😊

  • Brittany B

    Brittany B

    24 일 전

    “I’m so romantic I referred to you as an it” LOL

  • Izzy Izzie Yzzy

    Izzy Izzie Yzzy

    25 일 전

    Down with wmaf 👎👎

    • Izzy Izzie Yzzy

      Izzy Izzie Yzzy

      21 일 전

      @utf 8 ewww another one of you

  • Anusha Jahagirdar

    Anusha Jahagirdar

    26 일 전

    No poker face and and no patience. That's 100% me! 😂

  • Hannah Carter

    Hannah Carter

    29 일 전

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  • Isabella Masterson

    Isabella Masterson

    29 일 전

    please please please make a podcast

  • Nuri Way

    Nuri Way

    29 일 전

    omg your relationship is so much like my parents like my mom is straight forward and doesn't like waiting for my dad to say goodbye to everyone and chatting for hours w/ random people and I love that

  • Thuy-Anh Luong

    Thuy-Anh Luong

    개월 전

    i love the way they interacting with each other. Cant believe that she is 31 already 😆

  • Damilola


    개월 전

    wow jenn is so so so so pretty

  • Renata Rena

    Renata Rena

    개월 전

    You are such nice people

  • Sanne


    개월 전

    I am going through the most difficult time in my own LDR right now because it's been LD for too long, I guess.. so this video really, really helps :( thank you.

  • Riwa A

    Riwa A

    개월 전

    Hi jenn it's been years since I've began watching your videos, I am inspired by so many personal talks and topics you've shared .. marriage friendship health or even reading... so glad that you are evolving .. really hope you are always doing great and feeling the peace we feel when we watch your channel ❤ love Riwa

  • Kathleen Dang

    Kathleen Dang

    개월 전

    Omg the question about what yall dislike about each other i can relate SO much my bf is so likable and social im kinda jealous but i feel like im always on the run

  • Isabella Torez

    Isabella Torez

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  • Esther Perepechkin

    Esther Perepechkin

    개월 전

    I once heard. Not just Communication is key, but communication and LISTENING 👂 ❤️🥰

  • Christine Tran

    Christine Tran

    개월 전

    You seem to be such a lovely couple 😍. Enjoyed listening to your answers and perspectives 🙏 thanks for sharing 💓

  • bubblelicious NIC

    bubblelicious NIC

    개월 전

    i love the respect for each other

  • Tyyne


    개월 전

    What a great video. Thanks for being open and tons of kudos for continuing to work on your relationship! I’ve been with my hubby for over ten years, we also did long distance for a long time and it is work but so worth it when you know they’re the right person!

  • Marianne M

    Marianne M

    개월 전

    I just want to give huge appreciation to Ben for embracing your channel in so many ways! :)

  • Mel thor

    Mel thor

    개월 전

    OMG I am JENN 😂 I am sooo impatient! And I tend to lose my tolerance with people. Its soooo bad. I'm working on it haha

  • heydurian


    개월 전

    When Jenn said "compatible expectations," my mind was BLOWN. Such a great way to put it - relationships work if we agree with what to expect!
    Also, Ben's joke about Jenn's top - " lint rolling it til there's nothing left - got me laughing throughout the whole video LMAO

  • Hannah K

    Hannah K

    개월 전

    this was so cute

  • emily todd

    emily todd

    개월 전

    i love this one xxxx so so helpful

  • Nancy Tampi

    Nancy Tampi

    개월 전

    awwwww this is too cuteㅠㅠ

  • Zahra Anwar

    Zahra Anwar

    개월 전

    You guys are so cuteeee 😭😭😭😭

  • Oluwatayo Isa Daniel

    Oluwatayo Isa Daniel

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  • Scoups08 Choi

    Scoups08 Choi

    개월 전

    Ever since quarantine started I've been trying my best to develop a backbone. I badly need one. And realizing that I can't be too much of an empath towards others but not to myself

  • Lorena Gutierrez

    Lorena Gutierrez

    개월 전

    Ahhh starting my day with y'all😌😌😌😌💓💓💓💓

  • Jessica Isabelle

    Jessica Isabelle

    개월 전

    Jenn and Ben are honestly such great individuals, but together, they're truly a force of nature. thank you for always being so honest with us viewers! we really appreciate your authenticity, both the pretty and the ugly x

  • flowersehun


    개월 전

    i’ve been bens #1 fan girl since u guys met!! ur so lucky jenn :’)

  • Claudia


    개월 전

    aiyo ben’s such a great guy

  • Laurence Rousseau

    Laurence Rousseau

    개월 전

    Omg, Jenn I am exactly like you - patience and poker face wise! It's so funny, because my boyfriend is similar to Ben - very patient and chatty ! haha

  • Isabelle Willemse

    Isabelle Willemse

    개월 전

    Loved this video!!!

  • Shivani Gogar

    Shivani Gogar

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  • Rayma Kochakkan

    Rayma Kochakkan

    개월 전

    jenn sounds like an aries moon

  • Julia Thiemonge

    Julia Thiemonge

    개월 전

    Having been in a long distance relationship—- it’s never easy but with the right person i think it deepens a connection like nothing else. There’s a pro about being able to be independent and grow as individuals that strengthens a union. I love my partner even more all this time later because i’ve seen them grow with and without me and we were able to come together through all this time

  • zoe h.

    zoe h.

    개월 전

    You guys are awesome🤣❤️

  • yourfutureiscloudy


    개월 전

    Yass this was just what I needed!!! It was so fun to watch too :) Love you guys!

  • Leak Ngel

    Leak Ngel

    개월 전

    You guys are the one true power couple. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • Phoebe Phi

    Phoebe Phi

    개월 전

    this shirt from jenn feels like she is an angel

  • Belen De la Cruz

    Belen De la Cruz

    개월 전

    This was awesome, thank you so much for this video, you have a great chemistry

  • Oda Maria

    Oda Maria

    개월 전

    The answers to the last question gave me life today, you guys are the cutest 💖

  • Alexis Galang

    Alexis Galang

    개월 전

    sana makabalik ka sa bahay ko frm ghen gm

  • Rochelle Luu

    Rochelle Luu

    개월 전

    awwww this is so cute! love these q&a’s. very honest and easy to listen to. would love to hear more from ben!

  • mkp 80

    mkp 80

    개월 전

    I adore this 🥰 the honesty in the vid is relatable- would love to see more this sorta content!

  • lieybeth l

    lieybeth l

    개월 전

    I love how both of you looking each other, so connected to each other - apart the fact that while you recording you need to keep the eye contact to camera 💕

  • Jordan


    개월 전

    She was so beautiful and now so bad looking. Oh my god

  • Zubaidah Ahmad

    Zubaidah Ahmad

    개월 전

    The anololgy of oven and popcorn is perfect.

  • Thương Lê Thị

    Thương Lê Thị

    개월 전

    Thank you for sharing those beatiful things. You two make my day.
    Hope that when I am ready I will find someone who are patient and generous enough to go through with me in every difficult moments of life☺☺

  • Sooyon Kim

    Sooyon Kim

    개월 전

    More of these please!

  • Pierrine


    개월 전

    which myer's briggs personality types are you guys? :*

  • Aela Medicis

    Aela Medicis

    개월 전

    I watch almost all your videos, rarely post a comment though... But damn this video is soooo nice!! You are both so honest and open!!
    thanks for this video

  • Ingrid Jeungsmarn

    Ingrid Jeungsmarn

    개월 전

    I’ve been following Jenn and Ben ever since their earlier days and they are literally my favourite couple. The way they understand each other, have boundaries, their openness about their vulnerabilities etc. really give me perspective as to what a healthy relationship should look like.

  • angelie esmele

    angelie esmele

    개월 전

    Thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

  • Jennifer Cork

    Jennifer Cork

    개월 전

    Jenn!!! Where did you get your cute sweater?!

  • Sarah McKinney

    Sarah McKinney

    개월 전

    I have no poker face or patience either!

  • ijyoyo


    개월 전

    Wow, this is amazing to see :)

  • Angelnes56


    개월 전

    is he a leo? Im a virgo and my bf is leo and this sounds like us where he is so chatty and I am not

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  • Shaq NMP

    Shaq NMP

    개월 전

    the question abt getting insecure/lonely in a LDR really hit home but in a good way. It gave alot of insight but it also allows me to look at my own LDR. I just really appreciate you guys being honest and transparent about that part of your relationship

  • Shooky is a Cookie

    Shooky is a Cookie

    개월 전

    I love your top / cardigan... will you restock it?

  • It's Chezibelle

    It's Chezibelle

    개월 전

    Ben is like the Agony Uncle of topics. I thoroughly enjoy these sit down Q & A videos and when Ben said "Sex on Tuesday" really got me hahahahha

  • Lily Rose

    Lily Rose

    개월 전

    this little piece of hair look like mic :D

  • Lily Rose

    Lily Rose

    개월 전

    I loved the video. You both are so cute. I am waiting to find my other half :) Also did you film a video about how did you meet with Ben ? I would like to watch that :)

  • Tiffany


    개월 전

    Love a libra / virgo relationship ❤️

  • Barbora Juhásová

    Barbora Juhásová

    개월 전

    I love this couple, You are a perfect fit for each other. The battery level part made me laugh (cause I am the same type)

  • Noreen Husain

    Noreen Husain

    개월 전

    bens a libra right? soooo libra

  • Ngoc Anh Nguyen

    Ngoc Anh Nguyen

    개월 전

    The way they look at each other makes me feel lonely😭😭

  • Ojuolape


    개월 전

    I love how Ben has embraced this on-screen presence 😅

  • Ube


    개월 전

    Ben being chatty to everyone. That definitely has to do with being British, because I can totally relate to that!

  • 도종선


    개월 전

    안녕 도희 보고싶다 이모가